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the kids know who in charge
 PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 12:20 pm Reply with quote  
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  LadyKatstoy

Joined: 02 Jul 2009
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Location: Toronto Canada

Last week when I picked up Lady Kat at work, I asked her if I could purchase a ice fishing hut. I was planning on going ice fishing the next day and the weather forecast was cold, snowing and blowing. Lady Kat replied that I could make that big purchase ($300 ) on my VISA. So I thanked her for permission and then called our son to see if he wanted to go with me fishing. I told him that I bought a ice hut and he could come along if he wanted to. His response? uhh, does mom know you bought that ?
After I got off the phone with him I smiled and told Lady Kat that our children know who is the boss in our house.
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 PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 5:03 pm Reply with quote  
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  FinallyMe

Joined: 18 May 2009
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Location: Upper Peninsula of Michigan

Love it.  Wise son you have by the way.


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 PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 5:54 pm Reply with quote  
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  GentleDomme
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Joined: 09 May 2009
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Location: Missouri, USA

LOL, so funny. They do tend to pick up on those things.

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 PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 2:18 pm Reply with quote  
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  wolfling

Joined: 23 Oct 2011
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Location: Texas

it won't be long before my kids figure it out
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 PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 3:10 pm Reply with quote  
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  rockynook

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We have concluded that since are "kids" are in their late thirties, we must do "everything"to hide our situation.
Somehow we would find it extremely awkward to be discovered.
We really do not feel our "kids" would accept the fact that "Daddy's wear lingerie and worships Mommy, and Mommy is a Domme who dresses in leather corsets.
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 PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 4:07 pm Reply with quote  
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  wolfling

Joined: 23 Oct 2011
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Location: Texas

Perhaps simply "Mom's in charge of the relationship." I've known that about my parents for years, though they certainly don't take it as far as most of us here do... I've seen their closets...
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 PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 5:58 pm Reply with quote  
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  kdpierre

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As some of you know from a very early post of mine here several months ago, I am in a situation where my dominant girlfriend's kids know that their Mom is not only the boss for them but my "boss" in the house as well. They also know what happens to those who don't do what they should........ they get punished. However, they do find it funny that while they may lose TV or Playstation privileges, I get called to the bedroom for a spanking they can easily hear through the door. There is no hiding this embarrassing little fact. It is openly discussed and treated as something that while obviously not everyone does...IS normal for their Mom and me. Granted, due to their ages, they don't know about the more sexual and private aspects of our relationship, but that is as it should be with anything sexual.

It took a bit of frank discussion to arrive at the decision to live at least somewhat openly, but it did shock me at first since the Femdom aspect of my previous marriage was kept a well-hidden secret from my son and daughter..............or so I thought. This past Christmas my 19-year old son "came out" to me as being a Dom to his current submissive girlfriend. When we discussed this more a lot of information came out, most notably that despite our very diligent efforts to hide our lifestyle, he knew for a long time that my ex and I were engaged in a kinky lifestyle.

The morale of the story? Be true to yourself. Be honest with kids (while being age appropriate in your explanations). And ultimately everyone will be better adjusted to whatever inclinations they may or may not possess....and more understanding of those they may encounter later who may have interests or proclivities different from their own.
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 PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:23 pm Reply with quote  
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  wolfling

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Location: Texas

well said kd
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 PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 9:59 am Reply with quote  
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  Curioso

Joined: 05 Jul 2010
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Location: Bay Area, CA

I think kids always pick up on the power differential in relationships.  And if the relationship is happy and loving, they just accept the power differential as normal.  

Growing up in a female led household should teach kids to respect women, and that's a healthy thing, whether they want to follow the female led path in their own lives or not.
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 PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:11 am Reply with quote  
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  sos

Joined: 13 Jan 2011
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Location: Michigan

Yup, ours know even though they don't really know.

Wait, I think that makes sense.
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