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Hi everybody...,
Dearest Ms Kat has deemed it suitable for me to show below a post made by a wonderful, wise and kind lady on Fetlife (with her permission of course - and I must add here that I respectfully offered to forward her the link, so that she can follow any responses at her pleasure)....

As I prepare to send this message..., I remember most strongly (and with tears in my eyes) our dear and late friend ""oldsub""..., and I offer the posting of this to you..., dear..., and ever so LOVING mentor of mine...!!!!!!!  

Submissive men and women who love them

Why we love submissive men.
by jestergirl (Jan 2010)

It is with great respect to submissive men that I attempt to write a respectful dissertation on this topic. This is just one girl’s opinion and in no way is meant to define or offend anyone.
I feel that many of you have been wrongfully classified as weak men. You have not had any role models as you’ve walked this path. Somewhere along the line, you’ve been told that submission in a man is weak. It is my humble opinion that you are the strongest of men…
A truly submissive man is a protector, a servant, a planner, as well as a graceful reflection of his Mistress. He is conscious that his appearance is reflection of her and therefore endeavors himself to always be put together. He is a silent reflection of her strength and a supporter of her dreams and goals.
The greatest submissive men act with dignity, in fact they act with the dignity of the best butler…anticipating her needs because they know her. They know she drinks a cup of tea before bed and strive to have it waiting for her when she retires.
He strives to posses the best of manners, and what I mean by this goes way deeper that what the general society believes. He pulls out her chair every time, no matter the location. He stands when she leaves the dinner table…even when they are alone. He realizes that his manners are a reflection of his deep gratitude for her.
The greatest of submissive men are gentlemen first. They are honorable… they don’t act out in order to seek what might be an enjoyable punishment. In fact, a punishment is never enjoyable…it’s a failing to please their Mistress. And it’s never fun.
The fun comes not only from the deep service they provide, but also when they are alone…with his Mistress and a scene evolves. She knows him well and because he is indispensible to her, she will make every fantasy he has come true.
She values him tremendously. He is not less than her, but an extension of her. He is invaluable because even though he is submissive to her, he is not submissive to everyone. He serves her, and in that service comes a sense of joy and purpose. It also defines him as a man…a strong man…submissive man.

How true.  What an awesome tribute as well to old sub.  Thank you so much for sharing this post.  

Well done boy.


I agree. I think this post is appropriate. And I think the original poster summed up the submissive man pretty well.


Thank you so much kind ladies, I am always happy and proud to gain (especially) your approval...!!!!
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That approval is like a drug isn't it?

OH YES INDEED IT IS sir...!!!!

I am humbled and fascinated by this post. As one with self esteem issues aplenty I appreciate this ladys view. But I also find it difficult to fathom. Thanks for posting it.

Yes, a nice balm...

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