I am new here however have been reading about FLR on this site and a few others. The idea of FLR has been of interest to my wife for a number of years I learned quite recently. She didn't know how to roll it out and didn't know how I would react. We have been married for 21 years so during that time there have been ups and downs. She caught me crossdressing and I found out she was cheating to name a couple.
Anyways my wife decided to try a female led realtionship however there were to be terms as to be expected. I agreed to look after the household chores which include pretty well everything from laundry to cooking. My wife is one of those women that felt if she was going to commit the time that there had to be a reward.
So verbal promises meant nothing to her at all. Shirley said if this was going to work she wanted full control of everything from finances to the bedroom. This was something she felt would scare me off if I wasn't serious about trying this lifestyle. To show good faith I agreed to her terms and signed off on a contract she wrote with a 12 month term. We agreed to spend last Wednesday getting ready to begin the journey so she we went to the bank where I signed over the bank account to her. That was a strange feeling however it felt good once it was done. Our house is paid for so we have a lawyers appointment to draft up an agreement on Thrusday.
Finally on the way home Shirley wanted to stop at a strip mall. There was a uniform shop there which was where she took me. We walked in me being puzzled, where a sales lady greeted us. My wife said this is my husband so the sales lady took us to the back of the shop. She said to us here is what I thought would be the perfect thing for your husband. I gulped and looked at my wife with a look of what? The sales lady said take these 3 maid uniforms to the dressing room and call me as you try them on. Again I looked at my wife however she firmly told me to get moving as we had other places to go.
I did as she asked since that is what I agreed to do at home when I signed her agreement. Just as I took off my shirt she opened the door and passed me a bra and panties. By this time I was beat red and knew I was in for trouble. There was a knock at the door asking me to show myself. As I opened the door to see who was there I could Shirley and the sales lady smiling. They asked one another what they thought then passed me a pair of white shoes. Here put these on with your next uniform. Again I hear the knock and I open the door now wearing everything they handed me. They talked about my appearance then passed me a pair of breast forms. Lastly I changed into the last uniform then opened the door.
Talking about feeling humiliated standing there dressed as a maid yet looking like a guy in a dress. Both of the women agreed on the last uniform so my wife said we wil take that one. I was told to remove the dress but leave the bar and panties on then get dressed in my guy clothes. I pleaded to take off the bra or at least the forms. My wife said stop being silly you have your jacket and knowone will see you. Even if they do get used to it.
In all the years we have been together I have never seen my wife so firm. Off we went to a department store to load up on a few other items......yes feminine.
A while later we got home where my wife said ok today ws to be the beginning of a new life for me and for you. First when you are not working I want to see you dressed as my maid..............only. Also when you do come home from work you will go to your room and change into whatever is lying on the bed or your uniform. The plan is that over the next few weeks you will have more uniforms and everything that goes with it.
Shirley explained I had lots of time to talk to her about what I wanted which she has agreed to. At no time did I mention aything I didn't want so being my maid is her wish. She walked me to the spare room which is now my room. The dresser drawers no longer had my male clothes in them but instead panties, bras, pantyhose and a couple of camisoles.
Shirley walked me over to the closet where she showed me a few things she had purchased on one side and my work clothes on the other. I asked where my jeans and casual shirts were hiding. She replied you won't need them while you are being trained. I asked how long the training would take of which she replied oh not too long.
She said alright lets get you changed so I can see if I like what I see. I got dressed wearing the new uniform, bra, panties, pantyhose and shoes. She called me out to the living room where I stood blushing red. Shirley said alright I like it however a few things must be added a few must go. She passed me a wig and a cap to put on. as I stood there she said I like it. Get busy gathering up the laundry and meet downstairs. Off I went then downstairs I go. She walked me through how to use the washer and dryer. While a load of wash was going my wife told me to get out the iron and ironing board. I always hated ironing and only tried it a few tmes. She explained how to work the iron and proceeded to watch me iron what seemed to be everything she owned.
The night went on as I learned to do all the things she did for years. Every so often she asked how I was doing and of course I said fine. She said that's a good maid.
It was around 11:00 pm when she called me to run the bath. I was told to strip down and get in to the tub. Shirley passed me a razor with instructions to remove it all. I looked at her with a confused look. She said I'll do your back when your done. I asked if this was necessary which was then explained a maid has to keep herself silky smooth.
Well that was a few weeks ago now. Every day I come home change then start my chores of which she keeps on the fridge. Some nights she works late so my goal is to have everything done by the time she gets home.
It hasn't been easy making this change for me at all. Sometimes I think she is going to back out of it as she was never fond of me dressing in women's clothes. I asked her one night if me wearing the maid outfit was hard for her to get used to. Her reply was not at all since these are your clothes and we bought them together. When I crossdressed years ago it was without her approval. Now it is her preference as long as she is in control of it.
We talk every night how I am doing both good and bad. Shirley asked if this new lifestyle is meeting my goals. She wanted to know if there was anything she should be doing. Notice it wasn't anything I didn't want her to do. I tried that already and she quickly remined me of the contract I signed.
Shirley works in a law office so she is an expert with writing contracts.
I was wondering if other wives make their submissive males dress in feminine attire or do they keep them in the nude? My wife never liked the idea of me working in the nude. She said to me you are much more submissive when dressed in your pink maid outfit.
She is right there.......................everytime I get dressed and walk out of my room I feel my spins leave my body. Seeing her firm look as she makes sure I am dressed as she instructed is enough for my heart to sink.
We would love to hear from others who practice this lifestyle.
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