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Have you told?
 PostPosted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 6:09 pm Reply with quote  
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  floydster

Joined: 16 Jan 2012
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Location: London

I recently spent time with a cousin of mine after very many years of lost contact. We hit it off fantastically and I felt I could tell her anything.
She asked me if I was still happily married to which I replied that I was more in love with my wife than ever. My cousin's marriage failed a few years ago. She then asked me what the secret was. I desperately wanted to tell her the truth, that it was because we are living in a FLR but I knew she wouldn't understand. It took me all my self-discipline to not say the real reason and just said I had hit lucky (which I have).
If I were a braver man I would shout it from the rooftops but, alas, society isn't quite ready for that yet.
My question is this. Have you ever explained to anyone about your FLR lifestyle, and if so, what led you to tell and what was the outcome?
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 PostPosted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 8:15 pm Reply with quote  
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  Miss Chastity
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I told one of my girlfriends and she wanted in!!!
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  DLsKnight

Joined: 20 Apr 2013
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Location: Arkansas

I've lately had a couple of friends comment that it seems that my wife makes the rules. My reply was  that indeed she does. People that know us know that she is the one in charge. She in the last couple of weeks has been pretty open about teaching my daughter (engaged) and daughter-in-law about Wife led marriage. We don't flaunt it but, it's no secret either.
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 PostPosted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 4:54 am Reply with quote  
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  DeniseD

Joined: 19 Jul 2009
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Location: Richmond, VA

I have no problem with admitting or telling someone about who is in charge, being in an FLR is what works best for me so why not admit to it or share it as long as it is sharing with someone that will cause no harm.
DeniseD (aka Doug)
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 PostPosted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 8:16 am Reply with quote  
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  DLsKnight

Joined: 20 Apr 2013
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Location: Arkansas

floydster, I was telling my wife about your question last night while we watched tv. She said that when she had her hair done, her hair dresser was talking about trouble with her husband. My wife then explained to her about our FLR. The salon was full, many questions were asked, and she was the envy of all. Her excitement and happiness carried over well for me later.
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  maid4Her

Joined: 15 Oct 2012
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Location: BC Canada

A few of my wife's friends know I do lots of the housework, something she says has them complaing about how lazy their husbands are and asking how she managed to get me to be so helpful. She'd love to tell them about my aprons and maid's outfit if she thought it would go no further and I think I'd be okay with it if she did. I like that her friends are a bit jealous, it gives me a sense of pride but I doubt we'll be telling anyone what goes on behind closed doors.
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 PostPosted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 5:21 pm Reply with quote  
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  floydster

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Location: London

Miss Chastity, what fun your friend will have!
DLsKnight, your wife seems to be a very strong and content lady. From your posts the dynamics of your FLR seem very similar to my own. You're wife and yourself  both seem to be very happy with the way you run your relationship. You are very lucky.
I was wondering what your reaction was when your wife told you of her salon visit. Personally, I would love my wife to tell people but she says that they wouldn't understand and may think worse of her. Maybe she's right.
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  MsNaydi

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I have had several conversations about it with my daughter (age 38) She was in a relationship with a young man who she suspected was submissive. (It was a funny story. He was talking to her on the phone when she was out of town, and got himself a little heated up. She told him to get some ice and apply it to his erection. And he did it right away! That got her to thinking, and she found that he would cheerfully do whatever she told him to do...That got us to talking.)
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 PostPosted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:44 pm Reply with quote  
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  DLsKnight

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Location: Arkansas

floydster, When she told me, I was maybe a tiny bit embarrassed, a little titillated, but a whole lot proud especially of her.
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  sos

Joined: 13 Jan 2011
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Location: Michigan

Steph tells others about how much I do for her. Some ask if I have a twin. LOL

But she doesn't let on that we are in an FLR. They just think she has a very conscientious partner.

So Ms. Naydi. After that discussion with your daughter did that change her relationship with her boyfriend?
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